“If he can’t handle you at your worst then he does not deserve you at your best. Real love means seeing beyond the words spoken out of pain, and instead seeing a person’s soul.” -Shannon L. Alder
Hello readers! Yes, It’s me and I’m back! I apologize for the long delay, but I survived vacation and had a hard time posting this. I hope you guys enjoy and I’ll be coming back to my usual Monday night posts for the next week. I want to thank my SL Family and friends for the amazing support and to my editor and photographer I love you and thank-you so much for helping me keep this alive! So read on below and enjoy.
I’ll be your Dream
Ever feel that every person you meet comes and goes as easy as a click of a button? Ever think that it was really just you? So many have come up to you and try to get to know you and be as close as possible but you find anything to push them away and end it so that you don’t fall so deeply. Guarding your heart and now you realize you’re left alone and you truly have scared everyone off. And whenever you think back about the others, you become sad because you know that each one of them could’ve turned out better than what you had in mind. Most relationships start with just a conversation but many can start by a simple kiss that can leave you hanging and thinking more about them. Second Life has tons of places, and things that can help you and your future partner experience the romance that should push you towards that relationship your inner heart desires.
“When you’re looking for someone, you’re looking for some aspect of yourself, even if you don’t know it … What we’re searching for is what we lack.” – Sam Shepard
I’ll be your Wish
There’s many different type of people out there in Second Life but this person I got to meet pushes people out of their life just for the sake of being alone. Its common in her real life but she also does it with mostly everyone she’s met. She does the first dates, meets the guys, and does more with them that leaves them desiring her more and more. But there is always that excuse she tells to her friends.. he’s clingy, his words to her are nothing, how he try’s to win her heart. So many excuses but she will never deny that every moment with “him “ was special and she was glad enough to experience it with him.
I’ll be your fantasy
From the moment she teleported him to her home, to the first time they spent together, it’s all a mutual attraction characters face. To the kissing, to the cuddles, to the sex, it was something she looked forward to each and every day because many of us live our Second Life time faster than a normal real life time of 24 hours. She didn’t fall in love with these men, but she did discover that with the time she had spent with each of them, it was like a fling to the heart. An attraction that she loved having, that she feels distant in her own life.
“Real love is always chaotic. You lose control; you lose perspective. You lose the ability to protect yourself. The greater the love, the greater the chaos. It’s a given and that’s the secret.” -Jonathan Carroll
I’ll be your Hope
I did get to ask her why she didn’t just give them a try to partner her and do so much more. But she told me she felt selfish to keep something going that she feels it was only desired from one and not her. It could be that she is scared to just let go, just like the other story of a man jumping off a lighthouse but she just can’t push herself that far. And she will just accept her fate of meeting, flirting and keeping it at that.
Everything’s a mystery when it comes to romance, but I know we all know the language of kissing. From the moment our faces light up to feel the other persons lips on to ours. A foreign language that mostly everyone knows until they receive it from the person they desire at that moment. In his arms, to hiding the kiss behind a book because you feel it opens up barriers that not everyone should know. It’s all beautiful and something that should be done so much..
“Most of the strangers we fall in love with seem to act as strangers rather than being strangers.” -unknown
I’ll be your Love
One day you will be told that they want to stay with you no matter the hurtful words you say because you are worth it. You can push away but standing there afk with you and waiting for each answer is worth every minute of their day. You can delete them, and ignore them when they are in the same room but they will be there the moment you decide to talk to them.
Who says you can’t live happily and selfish. We are all selfish. Just like each date and moment you have with them. Live it to the fullest and live happily like you did with every kiss you shared with them.
So have you ever been asked the question… How innocent are you? How many men have you been with? Or better yet… hookups? yes… this can be very awkward and you have choices to answer to this man that wants to know so much and is strange for even wanting to know.
“If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, it’s yours forever. If it doesn’t, then it was never meant to be.” -unknown
Be Everything That You Need
Are you Honest? Well we all want to be seen as good girls, right? Like not be told we are serial daters since we have had a couple of dates with different men.. or much more but if he did care so much why would that matter? You are still the same, it’s just something you have done and men aren’t always that innocent. It’s good to be honest when someones trying to know you, because along the lines you may give this guy a chance to go far and just telling him ‘no, you don’t do such things’ and him finding out from a different source can be a bit embarrassing.
Of course this blog isn’t about me, but the general facts that many go through, but I will say I’m not that innocent either. Even the most innocent people have done things, so don’t judge and just be open about it. Even if it’s second life, start off by trust and honesty and then everything will be easier. You won’t have to be scared, or even deal with telling him new things each day, but it can be a handful if you tell him so much.
So this is the end of the post. And I won’t lie but this was the hardest post for me out of all of them. I’m not sure why… maybe I just need to get back to the dating life. haha joking. I’m relieved that my thinking cap started working and I was able to post this to the readers that are following me and reading it on Mondays like its suppose to be posted…. Sorry.. 😦 And I really hope you guys enjoy this post and comment on your thoughts!
I will say that I’m going to be making some changes, and this will be the hardest part of the project. Which is the topic of “Heart Break”. It isn’t an easy topic to talk about, but it’s something I know we all go through and deal with in many different ways. I’m glad I’ll be working on this with more time since I’m done with my college midterms!
So I can’t wait to share with you guys the next following week!
P.S. Omgosh almost forgot!!! Thank you so much to my photographer, editor, and my model!!! This seriously was the funnest photoshoot and am glad that I had you guys to make this all happen ❤
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