Truly Madly Deeply

“If he can’t handle you at your worst then he does not deserve you at your best. Real love means seeing beyond the words spoken out of pain, and instead seeing a person’s soul.” -Shannon L. Alder


Hello readers! Yes, It’s me and I’m back! I apologize for the long delay, but I survived vacation and had a hard time posting this. I hope you guys enjoy and I’ll be coming back to my usual Monday night posts for the next week. I want to thank my SL Family and friends for the amazing support and to my editor and photographer I love you and thank-you so much for helping me keep this alive! So read on below and enjoy.

I’ll be your Dream

Ever feel that every person you meet comes and goes as easy as a click of a button? Ever think that it was really just you? So many have come up to you and try to get to know you and be as close as possible but you find anything to push them away and end it so that you don’t fall so deeply. Guarding your heart and now you realize you’re left alone and you truly have scared everyone off. And whenever you think back about the others, you become sad because you know that each one of them could’ve turned out better than what you had in mind. Most relationships start with just a conversation but many can start by a simple kiss that can leave you hanging and thinking more about them. Second Life has tons of places, and things that can help you and your future partner experience the romance that should push you towards that relationship your inner heart desires.


“When you’re looking for someone, you’re looking for some aspect of yourself, even if you don’t know it … What we’re searching for is what we lack.” – Sam Shepard

I’ll be your Wish

There’s many different type of people out there in Second Life but this person I got to meet pushes people out of their life just for the sake of being alone. Its common in her real life but she also does it with mostly everyone she’s met. She does the first dates, meets the guys, and does more with them that leaves them desiring her more and more. But there is always that excuse she tells to her friends.. he’s clingy, his words to her are nothing, how he try’s to win her heart. So many excuses but she will never deny that every moment with “him “ was special and she was glad enough to experience it with him.

I’ll be your fantasy

From the moment she teleported him to her home, to the first time they spent together, it’s all a mutual attraction characters face. To the kissing, to the cuddles, to the sex, it was something she looked forward to each and every day because many of us live our Second Life time faster than a normal real life time of 24 hours. She didn’t fall in love with these men, but she did discover that with the time she had spent with each of them, it was like a fling to the heart. An attraction that she loved having, that she feels distant in her own life.


“Real love is always chaotic. You lose control; you lose perspective. You lose the ability to protect yourself. The greater the love, the greater the chaos. It’s a given and that’s the secret.” -Jonathan Carroll

I’ll be your Hope 

I did get to ask her why she didn’t just give them a try to partner her and do so much more. But she told me she felt selfish to keep something going that she feels it was only desired from one and not her. It could be that she is scared to just let go, just like the other story of a man jumping off a lighthouse but she just can’t push herself that far. And she will just accept her fate of meeting, flirting and keeping it at that.

Everything’s a mystery when it comes to romance, but I know we all know the language of kissing. From the moment our faces light up to feel the other persons lips on to ours. A foreign language that mostly everyone knows until they receive it from the person they desire at that moment. In his arms, to hiding the kiss behind a book because you feel it opens up barriers that not everyone should know. It’s all beautiful and something that should be done so much..


“Most of the strangers we fall in love with seem to act as strangers rather than being strangers.” -unknown

I’ll be your Love 

One day you will be told that they want to stay with you no matter the hurtful words you say because you are worth it. You can push away but standing there afk with you and waiting for each answer is worth every minute of their day. You can delete them, and ignore them when they are in the same room but they will be there the moment you decide to talk to them.

Who says you can’t live happily and selfish. We are all selfish. Just like each date and moment you have with them. Live it to the fullest and live happily like you did with every kiss you shared with them.

So have you ever been asked the question… How innocent are you? How many men have you been with? Or better yet… hookups? yes… this can be very awkward and you have choices to answer to this man that wants to know so much and is strange for even wanting to know.


“If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, it’s yours forever. If it doesn’t, then it was never meant to be.” -unknown

Be Everything That You Need

Are you Honest? Well we all want to be seen as good girls, right? Like not be told we are serial daters since we have had a couple of dates with different men.. or much more but if he did care so much why would that matter? You are still the same, it’s just something you have done and men aren’t always that innocent. It’s good to be honest when someones trying to know you, because along the lines you may give this guy a chance to go far and just telling him ‘no, you don’t do such things’ and him finding out from a different source can be a bit embarrassing.

Of course this blog isn’t about me, but the general facts that many go through, but I will say I’m not that innocent either. Even the most innocent people have done things, so don’t judge and just be open about it. Even if it’s second life, start off by trust and honesty and then everything will be easier. You won’t have to be scared, or even deal with telling him new things each day, but it can be a handful if you tell him so much.


Authors note

So this is the end of the post. And I won’t lie but this was the hardest post for me out of all of them. I’m not sure why… maybe I just need to get back to the dating life. haha joking. I’m  relieved that my thinking cap started working and I was able to post this to the readers that are following me and reading it on Mondays like its suppose to be posted…. Sorry.. 😦 And I really hope you guys enjoy this post and comment on your thoughts!

I will say that I’m going to be making some changes, and this will be the hardest part of the project. Which is the topic of “Heart Break”. It isn’t an easy topic to talk about, but it’s something I know we all go through and deal with in many different ways.  I’m glad I’ll be working on this with more time since I’m done with my college midterms!

So I can’t wait to share with you guys the next following week!

P.S. Omgosh almost forgot!!! Thank you so much to my photographer, editor, and my model!!! This seriously was the funnest photoshoot and am glad that I had you guys to make this all happen ❤


Life is Beautiful



Real Life

“The very essence of romance is uncertainty.”

-Oscar Wilde


Hello Readers! Not a normal post because I’m still out of the country but thought to give you guys a little insight to  get the brain flowing. My goal in this blog is to give insight and talk about the real truths that us Second Life users go through. There are so many scenarios, that it’s kind of hard to go through each one and really get into it. I based my posts on certain topics that I feel are broad enough to get to the narrow scopes that everyone knows. It’s tough to discuss about certain topics because many of us have gone through the pain or maybe gone through a short lived happiness. Of course as a writer I don’t come to rant about my love life either but to just share truths and be honest.

Real life? or Second life?

When you meet someone do you ever decide to discuss your real life just like any normal conversation you would have in the Real world. For instance; your job, education, hobbies, family and other things that you are most likely to share. Or do you guys discuss your Second Life and talk about the new job position you got hired for and brag about that family that took you in from day one. It can be a bit confusing because there are people that ask, “Are you talking about real life?”Its interesting to see when people ask this because it opens up doors to a life you may be escaping from, right? You may answer of course and start talking about it but there are others that believe it should be strictly not talked about.

Even if you say SL is SL and RL is RL. There are people that have no idea how to actually separate it at all. And it’s a bit silly seeing someone go from not saying anything to telling you about their day in school and work when you’re just like,” How do I respond?”

But back to where I was going at, my question is when do you decide to bring this relationship you have online to reality? Is it the first time your meeting/dating, or does it take awhile to share such things. Of course we all develop relationships differently but from experience, real life was discussed the minute “this” guy was met and that processed to being a real relationship.

Ever get scared about sharing so much? You have so much to lose if people discovered what you have. Or maybe your life is to difficult to bring this amazing person in reality. We are all different and live different ways. There’s no right or wrong solution on how to overcome such anxiety’s that build when it’s about mixing both lives together. But I say remember who you are, and you are the one that controls what happens. So take it into your hands instead of depending on someone because you are the owner of your actions.


How long did your relationships last?

Did you take your relationships to real life?

(If so) Did you ever meet them? Or discuss the topic of seeing each other?

How do you feel about discussing your real life on Second life?

If Real life is off limits, does the person you date believe the same?

Thank you so much for reading my little post and wish all my readers the best! I would like to give a special thanks to the photographer that asked to help out with the blog and my creator who made such an amazing logo for me. So take care everyone and hope to see you in my next post! 🙂


“Life is Beautiful”


Second Chances

“For she was a stunning mystery. She carried things deep inside her that no one has yet to understand and I, was afraid to fail like the others. She was the ocean and I was just a boy who loved the waves but was completely terrified to swim.” -Christopher Poindexter


Second Chances

In Secondlife we are all looking to have fun. Correct? Well of course many of us pursue what we enjoy in this virtual world. For instance, making friends, family, creating objects, fashion, even romance. Everything can be fun of course but do you ever imagine going through a hurtful journey. Losing someone that you trusted and opened yourself to.

Or matter of fact faked who they were so that they can have their own fun. Well I had the chance to hear a story that is very baffling and shocking to hear. Of course there can be many stories like this but do you ever imagine that the second chance you do try with someone might turn to such pain…
Many are hurt by others and truthfully give up on really gaining a second chance, but those that are lucky to have people around them that push them to start over. In this situation that I was given the chance to hear is about a woman that had been in a very long partnership and after him leaving SL she had given up trying. Her friends of course pushed her to meet someone who pushed her to new ways that she never really was offered. For example, getting married, having their own prim babies while adopting other people to be their child. Exploring SL in a different type of way so that they could experience it together.


“I never knew I had the power to hurt him, only that he possessed the power to hurt me.”

– Ann Aguirre

Of course many girls have the illusion by such beautiful words but in this scenario it didn’t end as pretty as she thought it would be. She did get married to him but in the end he wasn’t who he really was and the friends she supposedly had were all his alternate accounts. He created scenarios of jealousy, lies and many other actions that would shock anyone… Was this just play to him? Or was he writing a novel and she was the star. She felt betrayed and she gave up on trying again, trust was harder to give and harder to be obtained. But in the end she found someone along the way she never would’ve never thought to give a chance to.

Never To Late

You found someone, and you feel somethings starting… It frightens you so much because this person can be way better than what you imagined… You’ve been hurt so much and chances are so lost that your not even sure if you can try again. He pushes you and asks more than what you really can give. Feelings? What are true feelings? How do you even show them after so much, but is the person that is trying to get to you even fair for asking so much of you after your past. That person may never understand what your going through and has expressed their own feelings towards you. You get the guts to tell them how you feel but you know in that simple message you held back because your not even sure. But what are you trying to get? Why are you pushing so much.. that is it even right? Yes, its never to late to overcome whats happened before but why does someone have to push you so much. Well theres two ways to see this… and it’s because they see the hole you’ve dug your self in and they see something in you that they wish to experience. Or its their personality and trying with you is what they want. They could be bad or good, but its never to late to start something. But you must be true to yourself, and not let that other person push your boundaries because its all about you not them


“If a relationship is ultimately based on Love everything is worth one more try.”
-c. dorias

Point of View

You can be pushed and you can be hurt, but everyone else see’s so much in you that they want to help you. Don’t push that second chance away if it’s given. But also be open to the other person and show them that you are trying, and that you’re just scared of the outcome. It’s okay to accept these things, but it’s also ok to share these things with the other person. They may be a little shocked by the sudden information because many try to avoid such huge problems, but if they are worth it, they will stick by your side and help you overcome the fears that hold you back. Just remember that in life; time passes even if we try to hide from it. Day’s go by and it’ll be years if you leave yourself trying to avoid the risk of falling again. We are all selfish, and we all deserve something more. That person that is pushing you is also selfish as well and it may be a bit scary, but sometimes it’s okay because it may just be the thing you need to get back on your feet. Don’t give up on what really matters and what you really want. It takes obstacles to get wherever you want to be, and pain is a step to getting there.
But readers trust me on this, it will all pass and next thing you know you will be with someone worthwhile and everything will ease. Even pain and heartbreak are temporary and they won’t be around forever and sometimes were lucky enough to find a person who can be there to hold you up when you’re weak and walk with you through it.


“Sometimes you were handed a second chance, and all you had to do was close your eyes and step into it.” – Jean Oram

Bloggers Note: Drum roll please… Yes, I apologize to all my readers for the late post. Mondays nights are my official post times but I felt that my writing that night wasn’t what I wanted to protray. I hope you guys enjoyed the post, it was a tough one for me honestly but very enjoying to write. I want to thank my editor, photographer, readers, commenters, and to all the people that sent me a message which was very encouraging. I can’t thank you guys enough for all the support in this blog! I won’t be posting a normal post next Monday, because it’s Spring Break for me and I’ll be out of the country.

I promise that when I come back that the post will be spectacular since I have so much planned already,  Thanks again everyone for reading and feel free to comment on what you think! It can be about anything, from relationships to any obstacles you’ve been through. I’d love to hear! I’m looking for stories and models for the next couple photo shoots.

Don’t forget,

“Life is Beautiful”


The Weekend

“To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.”

. -Criss Jami



“Single |sin•gle| (adjective) – Too fabulous to settle.” – Mandy Hale

So you’re single…. ok I’ll rephrase it a bit. Are you single?  Or maybe married and have an actual boyfriend/girlfriend in real life but single in Second Life. Does the topic “single” need to be verified, or does this really matter. And who the hell cares, it’s just an excuse to label ourselves which is common in society.

So lets start off shall we?

You’re in Secondlife; single, having fun, mingling, making new friends, having that casual flirt with that cute guy you just met. Or better yet you’re a hardcore role player and your way above average since that is your thing. Everyone starts their single life differently and some others jump the gun and date faster than expected. Some of us are shy and bit more wary since there is a chance on getting hurt. But in every situation there’s always a chance for it to go right or wrong. Yes, ladies and gentlemen you can get hurt, its natural and its life. But this is our Secondlife, its to experience what you can’t do, and what you’d be scared of doing in some situations.


“A good place to meet a man is at the dry cleaner. These men usually have jobs and bathe.” -Rita Rudner

Every lady is different when it comes to our personalities. Like many of us are to shy that we try to put a hard front to show how strong we can be but it also can be looked as bitchy. The guy can think he’s a total turn off and feel as if you aren’t interested. I would say be careful because you may scare the guy off… go out the back window and tp out since SL gives us such luxuries. Or you also may just be a natural flirt and giggling is what you do. As someone said to me once, “The guy should be the one that flirts not the other way around. The guy should be the one that takes your breath away.” Or make you laugh your ass off because funny is better than boring. I will say this though… if a guy comes up to you and says lets jump off a lighthouse naked… (haha, yes this is weird and funny but this situation did happen and yes he did jump off) but you know what girls/guys? JUMP! Why? Because you may just miss a chance with someone that is amazing, and someone that tried. Yes, some of us girls are pretty dense and are really bad at showing what we think. But dating and meeting someone happens when you least expect it, so stop planning and learn to just say yes and do it.


“The formula I’ve figured out: Stop being so damn picky and let go of the mental image of an ideal; talk to more strangers, because it builds confidence and helps you feel more connected; be open to every opportunity, and when you do meet someone you like, keep dating around. And there’s the mother of all lessons-the one I’m still working on: follow your instincts and even if you’re wrong about him (or her), you’ll know better for the next time.” -Rachel Machacek


Have you ever found yourself on the search tab looking for a new club? Or maybe a new hangout that you can meet people. From an author that barely goes on adventures I have discovered a place that is very different and it’s a bit funny to learn of such place. You can meet friends of course and have a good conversation. But the usual people are there to hook up, and get an easy lay. It’s rare to find someone that actually knows how to make a conversation in these places. It’s pretty hilarious because these pick up lines are just terrible. But hey! We should give them credit though. Guy or girl, because they took the chance to even message you. Some won’t dare because your avatar is intimidating, or they think you are so pretty that they feel that they have no chance. So the next time a guy does give you a pickup line, you should thank them.. But also there are some bad ones.. but they are a good laugh though!


“I like my men like I like my Vodka, Gone in the morning”

So in other words I have come to the conclusion of calling this place Second Life Tinder (just less swiping and more standing around and waiting for a message) I’ve never been on the app before, but I have seen advertisements and all I know is that if you don’t like them swipe to one side and if you do swipe the other side. When I stand around at this place, I see many girls just waiting for a guy to message them. It makes me pity them because seriously I’m not here to wait, but also I’m not looking to hook up.

Any who, its already hard to think about where you actually can meet this person that you may start this “romantic “ journey with. It can be from meeting by mutual friends. Or maybe you did decide to sleep with the guy which opens up doors to talk. Yes I do say that some girls are desperate, but it’s kind of hypocritical of saying that. Don’t you think? We are all desperate for some attention, if it’s not romance, it’s at least a conversation. We all hookup differently, and see it as an opportunity. Hooking up is not negative, it’s good in a way so you get to meet other people in the same situation.

Learning to have a Conversation

When you start talking to someone on here… have you ever experienced the usual “mhm” or “lol” I know I have and seriously it’s kind of difficult to have a conversation with someone that doesn’t even try. It can be super frustrating but also that person that your maybe talking to or hooking up is just not the right match for you. We should all learn to type words, as well as speak them (Usually I want to buy the person a damn dictionary or thesaurus) anyways, you should at least try. It can be aggravating if you are in a relationship since it should be seen as 50/50; Meaning that both people that are in it should try equally so it works. And that’s just how a conversation should be. Sometimes we get the usual chuckle, giggle, snort, and it can be a weird way in seeing a small part of roleplay. But everyone should at least try and not just be there to wait. Because sometimes maybe that person who is barely talking has a lot to say but its just hard because they aren’t sure if you want to hear it. I know that there are some guys, who rather have a girl talk their mouth off so they avoid talking. But you should be talking to!

I will also say that there are boring people out there but lets not discriminate because everyone at some point of time has gotten the weird feeing when you have no idea what to talk about.


“Are you mine tomorrow, or just mine for the night?” -unknown

So have an icebreaker ready, or go look at google and type topics to talk about! (yes.. I’m that type of person…) But hey! Who knows, maybe that person right in front of you is your best friend. Or maybe can make you laugh at the pickup line they give you and that alone starts a new adventure for you both, regardless if it’s friend, or more than friends. You should always try to be open and not so negative. So if the guy has an empty profile, or one that is filled with so many pics give each guy a chance. There will always be a possibility that your gonna meet: a jerk, a perv, or a creeper. But there’s also a chance you will meet a guy that will be: nice, polite, funny and sometimes handsome. Treat all of them the same way, just as you men should treat every woman the same even if she doesn’t have the newest mesh body. Just remember that there is a real person behind each user.


“Classy women don’t have one night stands, we have auditions. You didnt get a call-back” -unknown

Bloggers note: Omgosh second official post!!! I hope you guys love it as much as I do. My inspiration in this blog keeps flowing and I hope you keep reading. I want to thank my models, photographer, editor for helping me so much. And going through last minute changes because I’m so bossy… haha but hope you readers enjoy!

Also I’m looking for stories to feature on my blog! I promise that everything will be anonymous since I believe thats important. I’m not here to judge on what happened but to share and open light on relationships that are common in Secondlife. So thank you once again! And comment below on your thoughts!!

 Remember, “Life is Beautiful”


Elastic Heart

“Someday you’re gonna look back on this moment of your life as such a sweet time of grieving. You’ll see that you were in mourning and your heart was broken, but your life was changing…” – Elizabeth Gilbert


The Beginning

So now we are at the official first post of this romance blog… haha I believe that it’s best to start at the very beginning where one meets someone for the first time. Everyone has different personalities and may be a bit shy, or very forward when you are first meeting. Or perhaps you started SL joining a family that gives you an opportunity to meet people right away that will help you throughout your SL journey. It may be the avatar you’re staring at that attracts you, but also the words that come from that person. You gaze at them and realize. “Wow, I think I might like this person.” or better yet ” Wow, they are so funny… their personality is quite appealing.” So, that my reader is the start of your beginning, better yet; the connection.


“Lust is temporary, romance can be nice, but love is the most important thing of all. Because without love, lust and romance will always be short-lived.” –Danielle Steel

The Plot

So you decide to log in more, or better yet converse more with this certain person. They make you feel alive, or make you have this strange feeling inside… that you just can’t resolve or identify. This can be a game, or can be a place to live that dream you want or to get away. But of course who wants to be alone, so you converse and you start dating. They bring you laughter, maybe take you on a date to a lovely sim, but you just don’t know what this person is actually wanting to offer you. You may play along with them.. well why not, this is fun right? It’s simple, comfortable and makes you happy. In other words you’re not sure.. but, its seducing you just like a wolf howls to the moon.


“Too many women throw themselves into romance because they’re afraid of being single then start making compromises and losing their identity. I won’t do that.” –Julie Delpy

The Romance and Heartbreak

I feel as when you enter such relationship you lose yourself in this enchanting feeling they give you but also you may just not be lost and just enjoy the imagination your entertaining. But, readers do you ask yourself when you enter such relationship. Is it monogamous? Or does that even exist in such second life. I’ve met constant people who are in relationships but it doesn’t matter if they meet other people. Or others that have their heart broken because you believe that they should only be with you. But is that very fair? When you yourself are enjoying Second life and want to experience what you can’t in Real life.. So does it have value? Does this relationship go to such extreme.. Of course heartbreak will happen to those that open their heart. But what woman or man doesn’t enjoy the cat and mouse chase, And of course, that romance that you’ve dreamed of forever.


“Once you had put the pieces back together, even though you may look intact, you were never quite the same as you’d been before the fall.” –Jodi Picoult

The Aftermath

So you broken up with the person, or have deleted them off, or even blocked them but is that really what it came to? After spending time together and having such a good friendship and relationship did it have to come to that ending? Some of us take time until we find another partner, Or some of us that are known as serial daters, have a guy already lined up to date. We are all different and we choose how much emotion we put into the relationship and how far we open up to these people. Some of us get so vulnerable and lost in the roleplay. Or maybe its not roleplay and you are taking this person to heart because you do want to fall in love.


“Sometimes you have to stop in the middle and rewrite you story. It doesn’t matter whose feelings might get hurt or if it’s going against the plan. It only matters that you’re writing your part, because you are the star. – S.L poetry

My fellow Readers, thank you for reading my post! This seriously was exciting to write!! Hope you love the pictures because I am absolutely in love with them. I want to thank my photographer/editor who has helped me so much with these two posts. Also to my model who accepted being part of these pictures. I will post the rest of the pictures on the Gallery tab since I don’t want to spam all of you with pictures. But I hope you continue reading and hope to hear your replies!!

Always remember! “Life is Beautiful” -Gabriella



So here’s a couple questions I thought would be cool if you could answer. I would love to hear your thoughts on my post but as well what you think on these certain questions.

Serial dating? (in my definition it means you date guy after guy) Are you a Serial dater, and do you know any and approve?

Emoting… Do you emote with your partner? Or just speak with them normally just like a regular conversation.

Is a relationship role-play? Or do you expect to go to a real romantic romance that can get into your real life.

Do you believe your SL partner/boyfriend/girlfriend/mate should only date you?

The Start of this Project

“The word ‘romance’ according to the dictionary, means excitement, adventure, and something extremely real. Romance should last a lifetime. ” -Billy Graham


Hello my fellow readers and to those that dropped by to see what crazy Gabriella is up to now…

Many of you will know me as Gabriella, the hyperactive girl who’s always optimistic and gestures like crazy. A spontaneous girl whose always trying to make everyone laugh because seriously who wants boring.. I believe that if you have something to say well say it, it’s better to be honest than fake. Even though I’ve been told I need to learn NOT to press my enter key so fast and to at least have a filter sometimes because I can be very honest, and blunt.

Anyways, if you do not know me, my names Gabriella and I hope to enlighten you with this new project that I’m so excited to write about. This isn’t the usual blog you will see that contains products to sponsor, or better yet, have rants about the new events that are coming out…
But like OMG did you see those new clothes that they have at… haha I’m just kidding.

I wish to write and share with you some topics that I feel are important to some of us Second Lifer’s and something common that some of us go through which is romance. My blog will take both sides of each scenario since I strongly believe as a person that you should experience both stories before you can comment. It’s only fair because everyone has their own opinion and it’s better to be open minded in life than to be closed.

In my blog I will be posting pictures as well to go with the topics to show a reflection of the feelings that you may go through. I am in the search of models and there’s no specific requirements. For instance, you don’t have to have the sexiest mesh body but you do have to have an avatar that is better than a starting avatar. I’m also looking for couples that will let me take romantic pictures that I wish to portray in my writing.

My blog will be open for comments, and I do wish to hear your opinions!!! Since I’m taking both sides, I would love to hear your story and if you do have a romantic or breakup story I’m all ears. I’m not here to be the next Dr. Phil, I just wish to share to everyone how it can affect each person. Also to every model and story that I do decide to share will be anonymous. I don’t like sharing personal information with a name, so if you do model or share I promise to keep my word and keep you under the wraps. 🙂

Thank you so much for taking the time to read my post! And I hope to inspire and share with you new topics and new thoughts that I feel are not talked about enough when we go through Secondlife.

Always remember “Life is Beautiful”